The Last Homely House

General => Council of Cobra => Topic started by: Kenddrick on March 22, 2011, 02:37:06 AM

Title: HELP :(
Post by: Kenddrick on March 22, 2011, 02:37:06 AM

Well she just told me she went out with a guy and she gave him oral sex.

I don't know what to think or make of it anymore.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: MR. Lurtzy on March 22, 2011, 02:48:39 AM

Why are you even in contact with this woman anymore?

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Kenddrick on March 22, 2011, 03:56:44 AM

I just told her I would never want to see you again. And Ket, I used your roses method. Except that just before she took it, I dropped them and told her I never wanted to see her again.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Mager on March 22, 2011, 04:09:47 AM

over and out.  :up:
That's what Condorian do.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: FM on March 22, 2011, 05:48:00 AM

I told you, walk away. The chick's messed up (at least, NOW she is, even if she wasn't before). Fun to go out with, it would seem (and, of course, fun to send her way after, no interest in anything serious with someone like this), but still messed up from the point of view YOU should have right now.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Mager on March 22, 2011, 06:24:04 AM

Kenddrick when my last gf dumped me, i said "alrite, over and out!" and thats exactly what i do.
Its been 1 year now, I see her twice a week now and we keep having six. I know its immoral but its amazing and i can't resist her.

So my advice for you would be like what the other fellow have said --- "over and out!".

(https://lotrtcgwiki.com/forums/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Flotrtcgdb.com%2Fforums%2FThemes%2Fbluee_plus%2Fimages%2Fwarnpmod.gif&hash=ee569cdda7eb4f1c4f47c19ce5c0f2c79df66d20) Do I need to give a reason...

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: FM on March 22, 2011, 07:04:16 AM

You do realize your advice does not help AT ALL, considering it's contrary to what the 574895729805028965 other members have told him so far since this all happened (you DID read the related topics, didn't you?), right?

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: tristelune on March 22, 2011, 07:12:50 AM

She is just trying to provoke you, to make you jealous. Ignore her and her comments, don't play her game.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: macheteman on March 22, 2011, 07:34:49 AM

Sometimes after a girl breaks up with a guy, she gets strangely possessive of him. i'm not saying that this is happening in your case, but i'm just reiterating what other members have said. "break all contact." Once she has broken up with you, there is NO reason she should be able to give you this kind of crap.

so go out, make music, meet people, and start to live again.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Haszor on March 22, 2011, 02:06:30 PM

I'm with Ket and Lurtz.  Just drop her, if there's no reason for her to be provoking you like this then you shouldn't put up with it.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Elessar's Socks on March 22, 2011, 02:49:16 PM

Quote from: Kenddrick on March 22, 2011, 02:37:06 AM

I don't know what to think or make of it anymore.

- She's doing this to provoke you. You don't need to think or make something of it.

- What she does with her life is her own business. Don't start rooting for one thing or another, because it's out of your control anyway, and it gives her control over you.

- Break off all contact with her (and don't go looking at her blog posts, either).

- Take the higher ground if you do run across her (this seems to be happening a lot for some reason). Don't let her bring you down to her level, because that again gives her control over you, and you might act in a way you'll later regret.

- Go out, meet people, busy yourself with a job/hobby, and see what life has to offer.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: jdizzy001 on March 22, 2011, 04:38:50 PM

now would be a good time to stop associating with her. She is going to say stuff and do things to "get back" at you. Just leave, leave, leave, leave. don't contact her, block her number from your phone, don't even open her emails, ignore her posts, blogs, tweets , etc., etc.. Seriously, cease ALL association. Keep up the good fight. You'll get through this.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Kenddrick on March 23, 2011, 08:37:14 AM

She texted me at 5pm the next day after I left:
"Ok I assume the holiday is off. I'm cancelling all the bookings. Thanks and sorry for everything. Goodbye."

I miss who she was. :(   I wonder where the girl I knew went off to.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Mager on March 23, 2011, 03:20:16 PM

What i mean is you have to quit her. Thats what i wanna say.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: jdizzy001 on March 23, 2011, 06:49:56 PM

Quote from: Kenddrick on March 23, 2011, 08:37:14 AM

I miss who she was. :(   I wonder where the girl I knew went off to.

She left. That's all there is to it. good choice not going on holiday with her. Do you really want to take a holiday with a girl who has oral sex with every Tom, Richard, and Harry? (no pun intended.)

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: macheteman on March 23, 2011, 07:36:59 PM

agreed. we have helped as much as we are able, and that is good.

but really, haven't we always tried to keep this a family friendly place? even back on the CC boards Connor always said: parents could be checking out the site to see whether or not their kids can join.

all i'm saying is that maybe the first thread in the council of cobra shouldn't include talk about oral sex.

we've done what we can, its probably best that we stop discussing the issue in the public forum. if kenndrick needs more advice, he knows who has responded in the threads, and he can send us messages. we are always happy to help, but i think its best any further discussion be carried on in private.

-mm

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: MR. Lurtzy on March 23, 2011, 08:46:09 PM

Quote from: Anonymous Private Message on March 23, 2011, 05:29:23 AM

I don't want to be rude, but I am waiting for the first to ask for her phone number or the first to tell him to shut up.

I've been wanting to do this since the first time he posted his troubles. But that would be mean, apparently.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Kenddrick on March 24, 2011, 01:05:15 AM

I'm sorry if I was bothering anyone. All I wanted was some people to talk to because when I come home at night it gets really really bad. I tried going onto Omegle but those people there are stupid. So I realized that the people here are nice and best to talk to.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: jdizzy001 on March 24, 2011, 05:55:02 PM

don't worry about it Kenddrick. No one is forced to read threads. One has to exercise their power of discernment to select the thread they wish to view. If someone doesn't like your threads they should stop selecting them from the, literally, hundreds of threads available to read. If you want to vent do so. If no one wants to see, read, or hear your rants they won't select your thread.

Title: Re: HELP :(
Post by: Kralik on March 30, 2011, 03:20:26 PM

Quote from: macheteman on March 23, 2011, 07:36:59 PM

agreed. we have helped as much as we are able, and that is good.

but really, haven't we always tried to keep this a family friendly place? even back on the CC boards Connor always said: parents could be checking out the site to see whether or not their kids can join.

all i'm saying is that maybe the first thread in the council of cobra shouldn't include talk about oral sex.

we've done what we can, its probably best that we stop discussing the issue in the public forum. if kenndrick needs more advice, he knows who has responded in the threads, and he can send us messages. we are always happy to help, but i think its best any further discussion be carried on in private.

-mm

Thanks for this mm. Kenddrick, we all want to help you, but at this point we're beating a dead horse.