If possible, 35/35. It sounds tough, and I myself had a hard time with this too, but try knocking out a few events and less than crucial companions. It may be a good idea to drop 1 copy of each of your followers. 3 of each is a lot. Slim down the events, especially if you're playing so many different events. As for shadow, I can't offer any advice since I struggle with a devius mind set, wink wink.