Update!
I haven't been on here in ages, but Erica and I decided to get married a little earlier than we originally planned. Okay, it was a lot earlier. We got married on November 20th, and it was the most perfect wedding I could have ever asked for. And before any of you ask, she's not pregnant!
We decided to get married earlier so that she could get onto my insurance plan. My company has open enrollment every November, and the insurance where she works isn't very good, so she never enrolled in it. I had to visit the ER back in October, and that visit prompted her to realize that if she has to make an uninsured ER visit, it's going to cost us a ton. So that's why we decided to get married in November instead of next July like we originally planned.
So I've been married for almost 3 weeks now, and I couldn't be happier.