HELP :(

[Kenddrick]

Well she just told me she went out with a guy and she gave him oral sex.

I don't know what to think or make of it anymore.

[MR. Lurtzy]

Why are you even in contact with this woman anymore?

[Kenddrick]

I just told her I would never want to see you again. And Ket, I used your roses method. Except that just before she took it, I dropped them and told her I never wanted to see her again.

[Mager]

over and out. 
That's what Condorian do.

[FM]

I told you, walk away. The chick's messed up (at least, NOW she is, even if she wasn't before). Fun to go out with, it would seem (and, of course, fun to send her way after, no interest in anything serious with someone like this), but still messed up from the point of view YOU should have right now.

[Mager]

Kenddrick when my last gf dumped me, i said "alrite, over and out!" and thats exactly what i do.
Its been 1 year now, I see her twice a week now and we keep having six. I know its immoral but its amazing and i can't resist her.

So my advice for you would be like what the other fellow have said --- "over and out!".

 Do I need to give a reason...

[FM]

You do realize your advice does not help AT ALL, considering it's contrary to what the 574895729805028965 other members have told him so far since this all happened (you DID read the related topics, didn't you?), right?

[tristelune]

She is just trying to provoke you, to make you jealous. Ignore her and her comments, don't play her game.

[macheteman]

Sometimes after a girl breaks up with a guy, she gets strangely possessive of him. i'm not saying that this is happening in your case, but i'm just reiterating what other members have said. "break all contact." Once she has broken up with you, there is NO reason she should be able to give you this kind of crap.

so go out, make music, meet people, and start to live again.

[Haszor]

I'm with Ket and Lurtz.  Just drop her, if there's no reason for her to be provoking you like this then you shouldn't put up with it.

[Elessar's Socks]

I don't know what to think or make of it anymore.

- She's doing this to provoke you. You don't need to think or make something of it.

- What she does with her life is her own business. Don't start rooting for one thing or another, because it's out of your control anyway, and it gives her control over you.

- Break off all contact with her (and don't go looking at her blog posts, either).

- Take the higher ground if you do run across her (this seems to be happening a lot for some reason). Don't let her bring you down to her level, because that again gives her control over you, and you might act in a way you'll later regret.

- Go out, meet people, busy yourself with a job/hobby, and see what life has to offer.

[jdizzy001]

now would be a good time to stop associating with her. She is going to say stuff and do things to "get back" at you. Just leave, leave, leave, leave. don't contact her, block her number from your phone, don't even open her emails, ignore her posts, blogs, tweets , etc., etc.. Seriously, cease ALL association. Keep up the good fight. You'll get through this.

[Kenddrick]

She texted me at 5pm the next day after I left:
"Ok I assume the holiday is off. I'm cancelling all the bookings. Thanks and sorry for everything. Goodbye."

I miss who she was.    I wonder where the girl I knew went off to.

[Mager]

What i mean is you have to quit her. Thats what i wanna say.

[jdizzy001]

I miss who she was.   I wonder where the girl I knew went off to.

She left. That's all there is to it. good choice not going on holiday with her. Do you really want to take a holiday with a girl who has oral sex with every Tom, Richard, and Harry? (no pun intended.)