The thing is NB, it seems you see things only black or white. It is or good, or really bad. You are obviously exaggerating when you say that a social government is a pampering one. And capitalism controlling
greed? :S It is it's #1 tool!
I agree that government is there for protecting, but also providing circumstances of which the whole society benefits from. They represent us, and their maingoal is to do as we wish. So that means medical care being provided, especially for those who cannot afford good care? I mean, how can you discriminate on health....common!
That means education. #1 must for a healthy country. Let talents flourish and come to great heights.
That means infrastructure, for that is what needed to allow a country to grow.
That means welfare, for as we know: men is egocentric, so we cannot rely on voluntary wellfare, we tend to care only for those we know and love.
And all above isn't a safety system to prevent people from failing, this is -when we go to your example- parents creating the best circumstances. And when you have a disabled child, are you still into this though love of yours?.....
NB seriously, you need to step away from your ivory tower, well, that might be too harsh, no means to offend, but maybe you could add a different
perspective...